Wednesday, October 6, 2010

The Absolute Terror of Sending a Query

I never thought clicking the send button could be so terrifying. I mean, really. I’ll have checked over my query letter about a hundred times and then, just as I’m about to click that send button, I start thinking that the word in the second sentence is absolutely the wrong word to use. As in, why would I ever use that word? Seriously? So I start flipping out that the entire query is wrong, just plain wrong, and the agent will take one look at it and press the reject button. Or whatever it is.

I revamp my query about five or six times, and then I end up going back to the original query. EVERY TIME. I really should have learned my lesson by now. And that word in the second sentence? It’s freaking perfect. So I stare at the email a few more minutes and then, before I can think anymore about it, I click the send button, wincing the whole time.

Is anyone else as freaked out by this whole process as I am? Or am I just that crazy?

13 comments:

  1. Although I haven't been near the querying process yet, I can imagine that it's a scary thing to do.

    Best of luck! :-)

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  2. No you're not crazy! It is terrifying. Now you get to refresh your email every five seconds!

    Good Luck!

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  3. Thats why you should just give it to someone else to send in for you. :) I could only imagine the struggle.

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  4. It is terrifying. You're not alone. Good luck to you!:)

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  5. I'm nowhere near there yet, so I can only be excited for you! YAY!

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  6. it gets better - just wait till you have to send your entire manuscript. the very first request took me DAYS to send.

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  7. I haven't gone through this process before, but just thinking about it is nerve-wracking. Good luck!

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  8. I hate querying. The sweaty palms, the waiting, the fear, and holding my breath every time I open my inbox.

    Good luck!

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  9. I know a ton of people could relate to you!! I'm not there yet but I imagine that I'll need a support system to keep me sane!!!! Seriously nervous!! Email me or text if you need a pep talk!! :)

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  10. Querying absolutely made me nuts. I would do the same thing you described, and angst over the possible outcomes for hours after I sent it out. Not a fun process, at all.

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  11. No, you are SO NOT CRAZY. I am this way, too, haha. I read over everything and then proceed to curl up into a ball because I AM SUCH A HACK WHAT AM I EVEN TRYING TO DO IT'S ALL WROOOOOONG.

    :D

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